There is an explanation as to why I have decided to stay single all these years. It’s because I do not want to hurt myself over and over…
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Hey, it’s Craig. Today we’re talking about why you look at porn, when you look at porn and where you look at porn. We talk a lot about “triggers.” Some of you are, perhaps, familiar with that language, but for those who aren’t… Figuring out your triggers means, “Asking yourself why you’re doing something.” Then,… Read more »
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Hey, Craig here. In these Whiteboard Sessions, I leave the talking to Steven Luff, a licensed MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist) in the state of California, co-author of Pure Eyes: a Man’s Guide to Sexual Integrity and creator of the X3Pure online recovery program. I love these sessions. If you’ve never been to therapy or counseling,… Read more »
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Hey, it’s Craig again. The question we’re asking this week is, “How can I manage my addiction to porn?” You know, I don’t write these questions, and I’d definitely want to reword this one. The idea of managing an addiction just doesn’t make sense to me. You can’t “manage” an addiction. It’s unmanageable. One of the… Read more »
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How can I love with myself now that I am alone? That is the question that I always ask myself especially when I am down. I thought that…
Happiness can’t happen instantly. That’s what I have learned after everything that has happened in my life. I thought that my life was the worst in the past. That’s why…
Hey, it’s Craig here. The question this week, “Will marriage solve my porn problem?” Nope. I’ve been doing this a long time, and that’s one thing I know for sure. A lot of single people think, “I struggle with porn because I can’t have sex.” If you’ve been trying to stay a virgin before you’re… Read more »
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Hey, it’s Craig here. The question this week, honestly, it kinda hurts. “Why does it even matter if I’m an addict?” I get questions in my inbox every week and I’ve seen it all. But this question really sat with me. It sounds to me like this is a really defeated person. They have tried… Read more »
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Hey guys, in this month’s White Board video you’re going to hear from David and Seth Taylor. These guys are the creators of our My Pilgrimage program. In it, Seth and David bypass surface conversations about addictions and setbacks, opting instead to dive straight underneath them in order to discover how our struggles originate in… Read more »
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Hey, it’s Craig, and I’m back with another attempt at answering a recent question we received through The Panic Button: “Why doesn’t God answer my prayer and take away my desire for / addiction to porn? Why doesn’t God do what I’ve asked him to do?” I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve… Read more »
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